When youre on a school team, theres more discipline involved, he said. Topolinski, who now lives in Washington state, said he lost touch with Obama after high school and they moved into different political camps. As you know, he made getting better health care for Americans one of his missions.. Obama and his family have . Titcomb and Orme are part of a group of Obama's friends who reunite in Hawaii every year, a practice that continued even after Obama became president. Hawaii had become a state only two years before Obama's birth, and there were plenty of native Hawaiians still deeply unhappy about it. 'When you're president, everybody wants something from you and only these types of friends are able to simply want your well-being. On his senior yearbook page, he left behind these words: We go play hoop.. In an essay about what he wanted to be when he grew up, Obama "wrote he wanted to be president," Sinaga recalled. Hed tell us to move on if we got into it with another player. He then wrote down his number, encouraging Allman to give him a call, and signed off 'Barry Obama'. Madelyn Dunham, a rising executive at the Bank of Hawaii during Obama's Punahou days, was more reserved but seemed to love having her grandson's friends over to play and hang out. Still, the story of his early years highlights how politics and autobiography are similar creatures: Each is shaped to serve a purpose. He attended a college basketball game with the first family the next day, and this week he and his wife hosted their annual barbecue for the other families, including those of the Obamas Chicago friends Eric Whitaker and Marty Nesbitt. "But it was only playing." Since 1995, Kakugawa has spent more than 7 years in California prisons and months in Los Angeles County Jail on cocaine and auto theft charges. Only Mr. Titcomb stayed in Hawaii. You can see how he was much more sensitive than the other guys, even back then.. That's where I'd been headed: the final, fatal role of the young would-be black man," Obama wrote in "Dreams." He thanked "Tut and Gramps," his nicknames for Madelyn and Stanley Dunham, but didn't mention his faraway mother. Obama never became terribly close with the children of the new school--this time a predominantly Muslim one--where he was enrolled. Rik Smith, a black Punahou student two years older than Obama, remembers a Halloween when white students would dress as slaves, coming to school in tattered clothes with their faces painted black with shoe polish. The handful of black students who attended Punahou School in Hawaii, for instance, say they struggled mightily with issues of race and racism there. It was a really fun, happy time. When she told him she loved him, he responded with 'thank you', according to Maraniss, and they broke up in May 1985. In fact, the Life article and the photographs don't exist, say the magazine's own historians. He and I really clicked. Darin Maurer and then-presidential candidate Barack Obama. The sailboat the Manu Kai (bird of the sea, in English) is about to set sail behind him. Magazines, Digital (Courtesy Maya Soetoro-Ng ), The life stories, when the presidential candidate tells them, have a common theme: the quest to belong. And once you started playing well, contributing on the court, pretty much the racial aspect goes away.. In one family photo before the mother and son moved to Indonesia, Obama walks barefoot on Waikiki Beach, arms outstretched as though embracing the entire beautiful life around him. The perfect tummy control bodysuit, a popcorn gadget, more bestsellers starting at $8. He took out (Osama) Bin Laden. But we never talked race." He also thanked the "Choom Gang," a reference to "chooming," Hawaiian slang for smoking marijuana. "I don't imagine the decision to let him stay behind was an easy one for anyone," Soetoro-Ng said. Some of these discrepancies are typical of childhood memories -- fuzzy in specifics, warped by age, shaped by writerly license. . "We live in a world of bullies and the U.S. has been bullied around. For a reputed loner, Mr. Obama has remained remarkably close to a trio he met as a teenager at Honolulus prestigious Punahou School boys of Hawaiis year-round summer with whom he played basketball, bodysurfed, drank beer and, like so many other young islanders in the 1970s, smoked pot, the choom of that long-ago nickname. He was tenacious.. Memories of a racial awakening? This is my man! a delighted Obama said, Maurer recalled. Obama was also known on campus for his basketball skills, and was sometimes called 'Barry O'bomber' for his jump shot. If only I had saved that Nerf hoop we used to dunk on. Their Jakarta neighborhood resembled a village more than the bustling metropolis the city is today. In a May 21, 2008 Sports Illustrated interview, Obama spoke of the importance of basketball in his life. Obama is. Mike Ramos, Bobby Titcomb, and Greg Orme-friends from Obama's high school daze in Hawaii-joined the president for a round on the links at Andrews Air Force Base in Maryland on Saturday morning. At the same time, several of his oft-recited stories may not have happened in the way he has recounted them. She also shared a complimentary note that Obama had written in her high school yearbook. The article included photos of a black man who had destroyed his skin with powerful chemical lighteners that promised to make him white. But those talks, Kakugawa said, were not about race. Through the haze of the 70s, they recall only the rat baller who was always up for a game. And they have cheered Obama on even when they disagreed with him. Get-togethers in the decades after high school were rare as the men built careers and families, although Mr. Ramos, Mr. Titcomb and Mr. Orme attended the Obamas Chicago wedding in 1992. kscharnberg@tribune.com kbarker@tribune.com, Column: For the Chicago Blackhawks remodel to work, their new house had better be built on a strong foundation, Merrillville food and beverage tax edging closer to reality, Remains found in Rockdale more than 25 years ago identified as Aurora woman, Do Not Sell/Share My Personal Information. I don't see that we are producing many Thomas Jeffersons nowadays. They were. Once again, Stanley and Madelyn Dunham, who had been as much parents as grandparents throughout the young man's life, said he could live with them. I am in poor health.. A spokeswoman for People said the reporter, West Coast correspondent Maureen Harrington, did not take the list. Hes off the grid, said Hale, who is now the schools head basketball coach. One of his incredible legacies will be how he modeled being a family man. But Orme is a hard man to find. , updated Associated Press Now lots of people are interested in helping graduates of Punahou School jog their foggy memories, trolling for revelations about a young man who spent much of his time that season riding the bench. Wed drive around in my van listening to Earth, Wind & Fire and looking for places to play, he said. Were the minorities here.. Electricity had arrived only a couple of years earlier. When kids teased him, Obama yelled back, "Curang, curang!" One day while visiting his mother, who was working at the U.S. Embassy in Jakarta, Obama passed time by looking through several issues of Life magazine. "It was a really fun, happy time. "He liked drawing Spider-Man and Batman," said another friend, Widiyanto Hendro Cahyono, 46. They have a different level of affection for you than friends you meet later in life. "It is a shame we have to worry so much about [grade point], but you know what the college entrance competition is these days," she wrote. "I imagine other black children, then and now, undergoing similar moments of revelation," Obama wrote of the magazine photos in "Dreams." Orme recalled that years later, at Obama's wedding reception in Chicago, Obama brought the crowd to tears when he spoke of his recently deceased maternal grandfather and how he made a little boy with an absent father feel as though he was never alone. TIME Magazine obtained and published this picture of President Obama the night of his senior prom in Honolulu, Hawaii, in 1979, from his classmate Kelli Allman. Last year, a book delved into his teenage years and claimed that Obama and his friends formed The Choom Gang - slang for smoking marijuana - in which he invented inhaling techniques and rode a car called the Choomwagon. In a striking snapshot with his grandparents, Stanley smiles proudly while Madelyn hugs him fiercely, as though she doesn't want to let him go forth into a world far from the remote island that for so long had been his home. Or f------ Eskimo." Most of his teachers and friends express sorrow that they did not know of Obamas racial anguish or inner demons. Some seem to make Obama look better in the retelling, others appear to exaggerate his outward struggles over issues of race, or simply skim over some of the most painful, private moments of his life. Now they mainly just golf more than 30 hours in six outings this vacation and trash-talk, just like in the old days. He's lived in Colorado, but was listed as a North Carolina resident when in 2012 he attended a state dinner at the White House that Obama held for British Prime Minister David Cameron. "Like being black was a funny costume in and of itself," recalled Smith, now a doctor who specializes in geriatrics in California. "They were like brothers," says Allman. I know that was hard for him.". Our second string should be playing more.'" 00:53 GMT 31 Dec 2014 He said that of the three, only Mr. Orme, another Punahou hoops player, was in the gang that Mr. Obama described. Furushima paused, then sighed, pointing out how the potential president was prone to drawing a little Afro atop the B and the O on his signature. Since January, more than a dozen news organizations from around the globe, from the BBC to TV Asahi to People magazine, have dispatched reporters to Oahu. One of those friends, Neil Abercrombie, then a graduate student in the sociology department, frequently would see young Obama around town with his grandfather Stanley, whom Obama called "Gramps." Barry would be the only black person. We could all be hotheads at times, but he was very diplomatic, he said. I loved his game," he said. In a new introduction to the reissued edition of "Dreams," he noted that the dangers of writing an autobiography included "the temptation to color events in ways favorable to the writer [and] selective lapses of memory." As he listened, McLachlin never dreamed that one day this determined young man, who had spent most of that season warming the bench while the Punahou High School varsity basketball team was marching on to win the Hawaii state championship, would grow up to be Barack Obama, the 44th President of the United States. But Obama never gave up and his work ethic was second to none on this team. We played a lot of playground ball.. But spokesman Bill Burton said Obama "stands by his recollections of these events as related in his book." Coaches have recalled how he never went anywhere without a ball. We were all cracking up, and everyone was smiling, says Allman. His character, the way he conducts himself, thats always been his footprint. The White House says Obama teed off Saturday at the nine-hole course at the Sunnylands retreat in Rancho Mirage with childhood friends Bobby Titcomb, Greg Orme and Michael Ramos. Others are more skeptical that the boy known as Barry felt the angst described by Barack. He knew that." Obama and his. The annual gatherings perhaps speak to Mr. Obamas greater need for their connection now that he has what is called the loneliest job in the world. If you look at our teams, that year I was the only white guy on the starting five. When a friend gave him shrimp paste instead of chocolate, he yelled, "Curang, curang!" They're not his wife and daughters, who came with him, but a trio of pals whose friendship dates back to Obama's high school days in Hawaii. Now that life story is being edited by others. He recently played golf with his boyhood friend on a return to Hawaii, and the president also invited him to his 49th birthday party in. These have been the stories told about the first two character-shaping decades of U.S. Sen. Barack Obama's life, a story line largely shaped by his own best-selling memoir, political speeches and interviews. KAILUA, HI - DECEMBER 29: (AFP OUT) U.S. President-elect Barack Obama and friend Greg Orme (R) wait to warm up on the driving range to play golf with friends December 29, 2008 in Kailua, Hawaii. The photos and interviews are in the new issue of TIME, which is out on Friday. Furushima said that many of her classmates have expressed dismay at Obamas rendering of the past. 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"He never verbalized any of that," Orme said during a telephone interview from his home in Oregon. "It's their world, all right," Ray supposedly shouts at Obama. IE 11 is not supported. In Hawaii, our diversity defines us, it doesnt divide us, said Rep. Neil Abercrombie (D-Hawaii), a close friend of Obamas father in graduate school in the early 60s. But twice that year the group gathered in Hawaii in August before the Democratic National Convention and in December after Mr. Obamas election. Topolinski said neither he nor Obama were stars on their high school team. In the six weeks since Obama announced his intention to run for the White House, he routinely has suggested that his diverse background--raised for a time in the Third World, schooled at elite institutions and active in urban politics--makes him the best-suited candidate to speak to rich and poor, black and white, mainstream voters and those utterly disenchanted with the political system. The Obamas attended a luau on Oahu's North Shore at the home of the president's childhood friend Bobby Titcomb, spending more than six hours at the gathering. The White House says Obama is playing golf with some of his longtime friends including Mike Ramos, Greg Orme and Bobby Titcomb. There was his mother, Ann, a brilliant but impulsive woman; his grandmother Madelyn, a deeply private and stoically pragmatic Midwesterner; his grandfather Stanley, a loving soul inclined toward tall tales and unrealistic dreams. All say he was teased more than any other kid in the neighborhood--primarily because he was bigger and had black features. On Sunday evening, Titcomb hosted a barbecue at his beachfront home for the entire contingent from . He rode a bright blue tricycle with red, white and blue streamers dangling from the handlebars. "Junkie. Aging photos show Obama and Orme decked out in 1970s fashion with their dates before attending a high school prom. Even though Trump is a loose cannon at least he will stick up for what he believes.. Yet those who knew him disputed that during recent interviews. College would be his next stop. With his friends, he would drive the Choomwagon, a Volkswagen microbus, to Mount Tantalus, biographer David Maraniss wrote. Allman also gaveTIME a snapshot of Obamas yearbook entry to her. "Not even close," he said, adding that Obama was dealing with "some inner turmoil" in those days. I really admire that.. And from the first day of 5th grade right up until his graduation in 1979, the young man was one of only a small number of black students at a school heavily populated by the children of Hawaii's wealthy, most of them white and Asian. He has ethnic Chinese mother and his father was Polish. Of course, Obama embraced the image of the athlete, dribbling a ball to school and between classes. Im incredibly proud of my friend. So just get the f--- outta my face." Barack Obama as a sophomore with the junior varsity basketball team at Punahou School, Honolulu, in 1977. The photos appear in the new issue of TIME, which hits news stands Friday. After a recent lunch with a reporter, he winked at a table of faculty-lounge colleagues and joked, This one is with Playgirl.. But Kakugawa, a convicted drug felon, said Saturday that he had never been the "prototypical angry black guy" that Obama portrays. One of those kids was Orme, a smart, respectful teenager from a white, middle-class family. 18:47 GMT 23 May 2013. He describes making friends easily, becoming fluent in Indonesian in just six months and melding quite easily into the very foreign fabric of Jakarta. Topolinski laughed when he recalled how they both tried out for the schools football team. 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In its reissue after he gave the keynote address at the Democratic convention in 2004, "Dreams from My Father" joined a long tradition of political memoirs that candidates have used to introduce themselves to the American people. He played on the beach. FILE - In this Dec. 29, 2014 file photo, President Barack Obama, center, walks during a round of golf with Greg Orme, left, and Mike Ramos, on the 18th hole of the Mid Pacific Country Club in . Maybe we could have helped him. Adept at nailing long jump shots, Obama was called "Barry O'Bomber" by teammates. He showed leadership and caring for his teammates, McLachlin said. The Latest: Obamas, friends tour Hawaii Islamic arts center 'Many people call Obama aloof, and he hasn't made a lot of friends in Washington,' Brinkley said. But the reality felt far different for the handful of African-Americans attending classes there. In 2011, he pleaded no contest to soliciting a prostitute, but Obama has stayed fiercely loyal to his childhood friend. The idea that his biggest struggle was race is [bull]." But its fun to imagine that in one of those pictures, theres a girl in a pastel dress or a lanky guy in a white sport coat who will end up becoming the leader of the free world. Right around then, we really started getting into basketball., Obama was all business when it came to "the game. Obama, too, was about to journey far from these familiar shores. To them, the characteristics Obama displayed on the hardwood as one of the Sons of Oahu were evident in the way he handled the daunting responsibilities as leader of the free world. Kakugawa explained that he had meant they were playing in the world of the elite people who populated and ran Punahou--famous Hawaiian families like the Doles, owners of the pineapple fortune, or the original developers of Waikiki, the tourist mecca. He describes making friends easily, becoming fluent in Indonesian in just six months and melding quite easily into the very foreign fabric of Jakarta. While Obama's prom photographs have never been seen before, details have previously emerged about his high school years. Kelli Allman is the pretty redhead pictured in the photo. She said a woman from People came to visit with her and then walked away with the Punahou reunion list and all its phone numbers. For the past two weeks, he has been recharging on Oahu after an unpleasant year in the job. She became estranged from her husband, Barack Obama Sr., after his departure for Harvard and rarely saw the group of friends that they had made at the University of Hawaii. "In the absence of his father, there was not a kinder, more understanding man than Stanley Dunham. A close friend of Obama's from their teenage years, Greg Orme, spent so much time with Dunham that he, too, called him "Gramps." Old friend disputes memoir Every senior graduating from Punahou gets to design a quarter-page in the yearbook. In fact, it is surprising, based on interviews with more than two dozen people who knew Obama during his nearly four years in Indonesia, that it would take a photograph in a magazine to make him conscious of the fact that some people might treat him differently in part because of the color of his skin. "If this story is eight paragraphs, seven of them go to Greg. Allman said the two couples sipped Champagne before going to the dance, and then an after-party. The images from 1979 show a grinning 17-year-old Obama in a white suit with his arm around his date, Megan Hughes, before they headed to the party at Punahou School in Honolulu, Hawaii. Alan Lum, who later would coach the basketball team at Punahou as well as teach elementary school there, recalled Obama as always being the first to confront coaches when he felt they were not fairly allotting playing time. Speaking up for yourself., I gave them more playing time, McLachlin chuckled. From left: Greg Orme, Kelli Allman, Barack Obama and Megan Hughes at Allmans parents house in Honolulu. I think if people were one-on-one with him, theyd see things his way Look at how hes treated President-elect Trump. Yearbook note Obama left for classmate Tom Topolinski when they graduated in 1979 from the Punahou school. But Kakugawa, in the interview Saturday, said Obama's recollection of that conversation was mistaken. And while they did enjoy marijuana, Mr. Ramos acknowledged, we played a lot more basketball than we smoked pot.. As he had at the old school, Obama sat in a back corner. Though Orme spent most afternoons with Obama and considered him one of his closest friends, he said Obama never brought up issues of race, never talked about feeling out of place at Punahou. Wearing a white shirt and dark-colored shorts and a baseball hat, President Barack Obama finished 18 holes of golf at the Kapolei Golf Course in Kapolei, Hawaii. And he would be going to the gym to work on his strength and conditioning.. Like Mr. Obama, he was of mixed parentage the son of a Filipino father and a Czech mother and his parents were divorced. Their. McCormack - now Kelli Allman - told TIME that the group sipped champagne before enjoying an evening of photos, dinner and dancing. Every time out hed come over and chat with me about my stroke, my health, he said. He said Obama may have come across as easy going, but he was no pushover. He is 9 years old, living in Indonesia, where he and his mother moved with her new husband, Lolo Soetoro, a few years earlier. But one word Obama learned quickly in his new home was curang, which means "cheater." In the book, Obama discusses race and racism at his high school with one other Punahou student, "Ray,'' the young black man described in detail in "Dreams" as perpetually angry at the white world around him. Bobby Titcomb Photos Photos - US President Barack Obama repares to putt on the 18th green as friend Greg Orme retrieves his ball and Darell Harrington (2nd R) and Bobby Titcomb (R) look on at the . Mr. Obama and the others often would visit family members there at Christmas and on occasion the men would meet, but it was not until 2004 that they agreed to gather annually. He can really relate to people. The tenacity and determination Obama showed to make his high school basketball team was an early indicator of the greatness to come. The same as in Washington, Orme said. And he clearly didn't appreciate that," Orme said. The 1979 photo was snapped inside the home of former classmate, Kelli Allman, who was the prom date of the pr, Fashion alert! Left: Kelli Allmans OAHUAN 1979 Yearbook. Whatever misgivings Obama had about Punahou, attending the school was largely his decision. He knew the really small apartment that Mr. Obama lived in with his grandparents and what a talker Gramps was. Back then, Punahou was a completely open campus, with several basketball courts where 20-something men from Honolulu would come in the late afternoon for what often turned into flashy, highly competitive pickup sessions. The other kids would scrap with him sometimes, but because Obama was bigger and better-fed than many of them, he was hard to defeat. He played several rounds on the nine-hole course with Bobby Titcomb and Greg Orme, childhood friends from Hawaii who flew in to meet the president. Since arriving more than a week ago, Obama has been out in public with one of his daughters only once, briefly, during a hike. He was a good player inside and out, Orme recalled. News. 'You are extremely sweet and foxy, I don't know why Greg would want to spend any time with me at all!' A close friend and track teammate of Kakugawa, John Hagar, also said he was surprised by Obama's description of the character representing Kakugawa as an angry young black man. Basketball was the great equalizer, he said. It was also how he wanted to be remembered. Barack Obama as a baby. Ramos is most often referred to in stories about his relations with the president as a businessman. So did Maurer, who is now a pastor in Houston. The president turns 53 on Monday. ", Ive known Barry since the fifth grade, he said. If someone is brown, they can be Samoan or Fijian or Tongan. Obama is spending the weekend golfing with Punahou School friends Greg Orme, Bobby Titcomb and Mike Ramos ahead of a summit of Southeast Asian leaders at the Sunnylands estate in Rancho. We had great vibes between us, she told TIME. But absent from those discussions, they say, was another student then known as Barry Obama. Id put that up on e-Bay., Alan Lum, another teammate from the championship squad, who now teaches second grade at Punahou, has done enough interviews that his fellow teachers have started to rib him about his newfound fame. , updated Obama devotes many words in his book to exploring his outsider status at Punahou. The Secret Service stopped a man who briefly flew a drone near the president's motorcade Monday as the president and his friends were returning from golf at the Mid-Pacific Country Club. Orme would stay for the games. When asked about the discrepancy, Obama said in a recent interview, "It might have been an Ebony or it might have been who knows what it was?" 'But the rest of it has sharp edges, 'Tho he speaks sweet words and can be open and trusting, there is also that coolness - and I begin to have an inkling of some things about him that could get to me.'. He was always very focused.. The man is staggering and numb but eventually pulls out forgotten dignity from under his flaking coat,/And walks a straight line along the crooked world..
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